Hi! I’m Kristi. I was 32 when I decided, after seven years as a lawyer, to leave my career and build a completely different type of life. After years of focusing on a stressful, all-encompassing career, I needed to mentally decompress and so I went to work as a waitress at a fine dining restaurant. For once, I was not thinking of what my next step would mean for my career, or what people would think of me, only of what would allow me to figure out how to actually enjoy my day to day life.
My life used to be ALL about the grind. The early mornings, the late nights, wishing I was more productive with both, hoping tomorrow that I will finally get through my to-do list, all the while beating myself up for not being better at ‘life’ than I was. I thought that was just what it meant to be a lawyer and put my career first.
I understand how people feel after they have gone to school for years, spent time, money and energy building a career. At that point, it feels impossible to leave. For years, I also thought that it was! But I was no longer fine with feeling burned out and frustrated in my everyday life. I wanted to feel more present, more connected and like I was creating my OWN path, not living someone else’s. I realized that my day to day happiness was more important than living for my career. That feeling present, connected and authentic in my day to day life was more important than the prestige of a career, or what anyone thought about my career at all. Once I decided that was how I wanted to live, what I thought I couldn’t do in a million years (just up and leave), I just…did.
At A Settled Mind, I want to help people who feel like I used to. I understand the complexities involved in making a big life change and I will not minimize the work that it will take. I want to normalize the pursuit of balance, wellness and fulfillment in day to day life – including in your job! I will use my experience, my training and my ability to connect to help YOU create the job, day to day experience and LIFE that you truly want.
I am certified as a Deep Transformational Coach through the Center for Transformational Coaching.
I have a Bachelor’s Degree in Sociology and Criminal Justice from Long Island University, CW Post in Greenvale, New York and a Juris Doctor from Suffolk University Law School in Boston, Massachusetts.
– I love meditation, mindfulness and all kinds of personal development and I am always finding new ways to connect with the experience of my day to day life.
– I love being near and relaxing next to any body of water, cuddling with my two cats and spending almost every free moment with my husband and the love of my life.
– Although born and raised on the East Coast, I now live in the Pacific Northwest. I love seeing beautiful mountains and sunsets on my drive to the grocery store and I am gradually getting used to the rain.
– I love supporting other female entrepreneurs and work mostly with female-owned small businesses for both my personal growth and in building my business. (See Fresh Lines Creative, Sasha Reiko Photography, Sam Vanderwielen LLC, Paperbell, Live Thrive Love)
Thank you for being here at A Settled Mind, I hope to meet you soon!
“How we spend our days is, of course, how we spend our lives”
Check out the e-book I Promise…You are NOT Stuck! to start your journey now, or set up a call with Kristi to learn about the Individual Coaching Program. You are on your way towards A Settled Mind!